Own Your Pilates Game and Own Your Life!

Pilates is a practice of accountability. 

The definition of being accountable, is- 

‘required or expected to justify actions or decisions; responsible'.

Doesn’t it feel good when you decide to do something hard and then you do the hard thing and then you can bask in that feeling of accomplishing that hard thing?

Hard things for you may (or may not be):

• Climbing up a slide the wrong way to play tag with your child

• Pitching to a group of colleagues and clients about your latest game changing idea

• Saying no to that family member who constantly asks to much of you

• Swimming at the beach in your swimsuit for the first time in 20 years

• Training for and completing that half marathon

The list could go on and on…

What got you to the point where you could do that hard thing?

Practice, positive self talk, commitment, embracing and owning the fear and then moving past it, changing your mindset. 

Maybe you externalise the motivation? Doing it for your kids, doing it for the greater good of the family, doing it so I can fit into that dress next month. 

Maybe it’s an activity you want to be a habit? So you do it even when the motivation isn’t there. You push past the lethargy, and feelings of sluggishness because you know the habit will serve you well. 

It’s a bit like a Pilates practice. 

It can be scary at first. Trying new things. Going outside of your comfort zone. Pushing the boundaries. 

But, the more you show up for yourself, the more you will be winning at life. 

The more good habits in your life, the less chance there is for bad ones to take over.

That’s why I always hold my clients accountable. Accountable for showing up. Accountable for giving it go. Accountable to the practice. Because when you practice hard things and commit to them, you are essentially practicing life. 

• When your kid’s parent-teacher interview is cancelled, you reschedule.

• When a court case is adjourned you plan for when it recommences.

• When a lockdown in a pandemic steals your birthday plans, you reschedule them.

• When wet weather derails your outdoor wedding plans, you move the wedding inside, it’s called a ‘back up ‘plan aka plan B.

• When you can’t make your normal Pilates session you reschedule it so that your body doesn’t miss out/lose the benefits/gains you’ve made so far. It might not be your ideal time for that week, but it’s your plan B.

Something I hear a lot from my clients is ‘jeez whiz, you can really feel it when you miss a class’.

Yep you can.

Your body has worked hard to feel good, it needs that consistent input of instruction and movement to continue to develop new muscle memory and pathways. Once you start Pilates, and you start to feel and notice the benefits, so does your body. It knows what it’s  like to feel good. It will crave space and length and freedom in movement, it will appreciate being challenged in news ways, it will make you feel strong and connected. When you start missing classes, it feels a bit like taking one step forward and then two steps back. 

So how much do you want to achieve that goal? 

• To run faster.

• To have less back pain.

• To be able to keep up with the grandkids.
  
  

• To be able to lift heavier weights.

• To return to golf with out knee pain.

• To be in control of your body and not your body in control of you.

• To be able to sit at your work desk without neck pain.

Now it’s up to you not to miss your Pilates class, so you can reach your goal sooner. 

When you reach that goal, then you gotta work to sustain and maintain it.   Make it a habit so that on those sluggish days, you don’t have to rely on motivation, make it a habit that is so hard to break, that on those one off occasions you have to miss a session, you schedule in two classes the next week, to get yourself right where you left off. Showing up for your Pilates is showing up for yourself, it’s like your own little personal cheer squad cheering you on, rooting for you and high fiving you when you score!  

I know how it feels when I miss a session, not good, not good at all.  And I will do whatever I can for my clients to not experience that too. That’s a part of my job that I take seriously. 

So the next time you cancel your class and your Pilates teacher says sure thing, can we reschedule? Know that it is coming from a place of wanting to  see you win, win at achieving those goals, win at sustaining those goals and winning at life. Your teacher is in your corner, cheering you on, rooting for you, high fiving your achievements (maybe not outwardly- hello, social distancing- but definitely on the inside)  along the way!    

Why the principles of Pilates will make your life better.

I’ve just spent the first part of this year taking all my clients through the 6 principles of Pilates.

One principle a week for 6 weeks. 

Instead of using a body part or a prop as a point of focus for the class, it was a principle. 

And it was great (yep, I do say so myself!)

When I first started Pilates, the principles were an arbitrary thing for me. Principles, sminciples.

This is what I was concerned with- ‘I’ll go home and do 50 reps of this stomach series thing I learnt in class today’ or  ‘Who cares about how I breathe, as long as I’m working on my 6 pack’.

Oh no, 25 year old me was not vain or shallow at all, haha! 

The 6 principles are:

1) Breath

2) Precision 

3) Centering 

4) Control 

5) Concentration

6) Flow

Why do they matter?

Let me explain:

1) Breath- literally the reason we live and exist. But do you live and exist to your fullest? 

Yes breathing is autonomous- thank goodness. But that doesn’t mean we are all doing it in the best way possible. 

The breath is so powerful. It is a direct pathway to our para-sympathetic nervous system. The system that can make us calm the F down. Now, I don’t know about you, but calming the F down is a great skill to work on when you have kids, a job, a husband/wife, a house, family, pets, a conscience.

Couple a calmed nervous system with a boost of endorphins that you get from moving your body around, and hello happiness. That’s why exercise is addictive, it makes you happy from the inside out. It keeps you sane. And if you can learn to breath properly through exercise to get the most out of it, it will give you clarity, the ability to concentrate more, to relief stress and manage pain.

Breathing also heals. Big, full, proper, expansive breaths will send oxygenated blood all around the body. That blood will fill up and filter through all the little nooks and crannies around the body (technical Pilates term ‘nooks and crannies’) And blood heals. Fresh, oxygenated, clean blood aids in healing muscles tears, dysfunctional joints and maximising performance. 

2) Precision- Jospeh Pilates was a bit of a stickler for form. And rightfully so in most cases I think. Ultimately, good form and precision of movement/ body placement has the power to change bad habits! Bad habits with our form and posture that creep in over a lifetime and can end up causing so much alignment problems, that people live with all sorts of pain that they don’t even have to be living with. 

Precision is about learning to initiate movements from the right part of your body and with the appropriate effort.

For example, we don’t walk around on the balls of our feet all day long, it would cause some muscles in the feet and legs to over work and other muscles to under work. As you can imagine this would cause all sorts of muscles imbalances, and then under any load or endurance, this could make things very painful.

Pilates teaches you how to stand correctly on your feet, sit correctly, lie correctly, you will learn about foot placement and foot effort through every exercise, so that the precision you learn in the studio or class can translate into the form you use in the real world.

Once you have precision you have quality movement. That’s why in Pilates you don’t need to do 100 reps of anything. Quality over quantity every time! 

3) Centering- Your centre in Pilates is not just your 6 pack (although 25 year old me sure as hell thought  it was).

In Pilates, your Centre is also referred to as your Powerhouse. Your Powerhouse is all the muscles from your ribs to your hips in the front, in the back and around the sides- think of them like a girdle of muscles that we want to strengthen to help stabilise your spine and pelvis. Then, we definitely can not forget about the booty muscles- they are part of the Powerhouse too. Lesley Logan has famously called this region your Tharse, where your thighs meet your arse! 

In Pilates, the premise is that we work from the centre first, this is where we draw our strength and stability from, then we work our extremities (arms and legs) from a strong and table place.

I love how all the muscles are invited to a Pilates Party! The host of this Pilates party is the Powerhouse, but they are very friendly hosts and invite the whole neighbourhood (body) along, but not before the hosts have a strong and stable environment to invite all those guests in. Nothing worse than inviting people into a house and the the ground falls out from under you! Those guests would not come back! 

4) Control- Before Pilates was called Pilates, it was called Contrology. It was’t until after Joseph Pilates died in 1967 that it was named after his namesake. 

I think once you know this, it’s clear to see just how much importance Joseph put on being able to have control over the body. 

And I think it becomes clearer as we get older, if you live a sedentary life and overall poor health choices, your body starts to be in control of you. Whether that be, illnesses, ailments, injuries, these things start to dictate our life and the choices we make. No longer do we choose to partake in life as much, because sadly, it hurts. 

So when I think of control, I think of putting yourself back in control of your body. You are in the driver’s seat. Wouldn’t it be nice to make decisions based on what brings you joy and happiness and not because you are worried your back will play up or your knee will hurt?

One of Joseph Pilates’ students said ‘Pilates is stretch and strength with control- control is what is most important because it uses your mind’. When you can exercise control over your mind, you can execute exact movement in the body. And it’s that exact movement (hello precision- see principle 2 above) that will change bad habits, poor alignment, build strength and increase mobility.

5) Concentration- There is a fun little imagery exercise that I like to do with my clients when we focus on this principle. It’s called the Lemon Imagery Exercise. I highly recommend you get someone to read it to you while you take a comfy seat or lie down on the floor. It’s a little different but it highlights just how powerful the mind is on the physical body. 

Look, if you have ever done Pilates and you are thinking of how much washing you have to do when you get home or what you’re going to cook for dinner later that day, then you’ll know that basically, you’ve got no chance at it. You need to be focused. You need to be present and in the moment. When you can focus your attention to the exercise at hand or what the teacher is trying to get you to do, you have a better chance at being successful in the movement. 

The benefits of being mindful and participating in mindful movement are huge, not only can we reduce stress (see principle 1 above), but we can also reduce blood pressure and manage pain better. 

When we are concentrating and focusing our attention towards getting the right muscle engagement, then you learn to feel the muscles, you learn what it feels like when a muscle (or a group of muscles) is engaged.  Therefore, your body awareness will increase and you can translate that into more mindful movement in every day life, like how you sit at your desk all day long. You’ll start to be more efficient with your posture and how you hold yourself in everyday tasks, from driving and washing dishes, to cycling and running.

6) Flow- In 1925 Joseph Pilates moved from England to New York. He set up his first American studio under the New York Ballet school, you could say that some of his exercises were executed with the influence of helping an injured ballet dancer recover to full strength, poise and grace. And what a beautiful thing. If you’re a ballet dancer. But most of us are not ballet dancers. So being able to flow like a ballet dancer and being able to flow like a regular human being are two different things. 

To me, getting my clients to move with ease in the class means they have a better chance of being able to move with ease in the real world. How we move into and out of exercises (the transitions) becomes a focus point when we are trying to find more ease and flow in movement.

When you ride a busy tram (or a bus or some other public transport), it’s not just how you stand up in the vehicle eg, standing up with your powerhouse switched on (see principle 3 above) in preparation to withstand any bumpy rides. It’s how you get up off the seat at the tram/bus/train stop- do you need to hold onto something? It’s how you get up the giant steps of the tram/bus/train- do you trip up them or over your own feet? It’s how you hold your backpack or satchel over your shoulder- do you off load the one sided weight through hip hiking? All these other ‘transitional’ movements get you onto the tram, but are they the movements causing you more trouble than the movement of riding the tram itself?! 

I hope I have helped to highlight just how important Pilates Principles are, not just for a good Pilates class, but for everyday life! 

Come and experience how I turn these principles into exercises, reach out to me here to enquire about how we can get Pilates in your life!

Prop-Er Pilates: to prop or not to prop?

Pilates is a vast beast. 

Some people have been doing it for years and have only experienced one of the 20 reformers that they get to lie down on at their local KX. Some people have been doing Mat Pilates for ever and yet still haven’t heard of Reformers, Cadillacs and Electric Chairs and take one look at them and think ‘oh my goodness, what is this sex slavery dungeon I have just walked into’? 

50 Shades of Grey much?

Both Mat and equipment Pilates can be equally challenging, yet equally restorative and they both provide a whole-body workout. They can both help you work on poor muscle patterns, improve posture, reduce pain points and the potential for injury. 

Sometimes, some people, need a little extra guidance on the Mat work. Guidance in this instance could mean a few things…. such as, support, reducing challenge, increasing challenge, awareness of the body in space or creativity to keep things fresh.   

The Pilates chiball (or overball). But am I working hard or hardly working?

This guidance comes in many forms and we call them props, Pilates props. 

Here is a list of a just some that I include in my sessions:

-pillow

-broomstick

-fitball/swissball

-foam roller

-chiball/overball

-theraband 

-handweights

-spinecorrector 

-toecorrector 

-tennisballs

-towels

-the wall

-spikeyballs

…and…

-the kitchen bench (for reals! it feels so good, you can check it out here)

The biggest consideration when deciding what and how to use a prop is… what does the body in front of me need? What can I see in this body that is speaking to me and what does the client tell me they feel like that day/week… Tight? Tired? Overworked? Stressed? Creaky? Stiff? Excitable? Pumped? Sore? In pain? If they are more up beat, then perhaps a challenge is calling there name today, if not, then perhaps the class might need to be more modified and restorative. This is all just information gathering for what prop will illicit the best response in their body.

Next question, am I trying to mimic an exercise from the studio (ie, does the exercise come from the equipment) or is the thing I want them to do an exercise that is unrelated to mimicking anything from the equipment. Sometimes there is a time and place for both. 

Here’s an example: Client A wants to walk further and faster without hip pain? They go walking with a social group on the weekend and have lattes and chats afterwards. So it’s not only important that they can rely on their body to get them through this without stopping and without pain, but it’s also important for a sense of connection and mental wellbeing that they get after this experience with friends on the weekend. Although they don’t mention it, I can see that their desk job is giving them a slightly stooped posture with their shoulders rolling in and down. This is not bothering the client as much as the hip right now, but over time poor muscle patterning will bring about uncomfortable ramifications in the form of tight muscles, painful joints, potential for injury. 

In Pilates we never work the body in seperate parts or in isolation from other parts. Sure you might be lifting one leg up and down a bunch of times, but what are your shoulders doing, what about your toes and fingers? It may seem random to mention your finger in a leg lift, but that finger is connected to your arm and your arm is connected to your shoulder and your shoulder is connected to the powerhouse (your centre in Pilates). And now all of a sudden it’s more obvious how that stooped desk posture that is rolling your shoulders in, is impacting what we’re trying to do with the rest of the body. 

Most clients will say they love staring the class this way!

I might start with the foam roller. There are some great shoulder and upper back release exercises that can be done on the foam roller. Let’s try and minimise the impact those tight shoulders and upper back has on the rest of the body, for the rest of the session. Likely this person will need a thin pillow under their head to alleviate the impact those tight shoulders has on the neck strain and upper back.

Next, let’s get into the Mat work, traditionally it starts with the exercise called The 100’s, which is about warming up the whole body. It’s also about finding and connecting to the centre before introducing other limb work or more challenging shapes from the spine later on in class. Once we know where and how to work from the centre, we can carry that with us throughout the rest of the session. But if client A is not ready for such a challenging start, such as The 100’s, there are plenty of other abdominal variations to explore. 

See how my head is now stacked over my shoulders, this bring the work into the abs without the neck straining.

I particularly love the chi-ball/overball under the spine to leverage clients chest and head up over their breastbone when doing abdominal work. It really takes the whole straining neck thing out of the equation. And man is it a burner on the abs! 

I usually stick more or less to the first 7 exercises of the classical Mat work repertoire, sometimes with props, sometimes without, again it depends on the client and their needs. But those first 7 exercises are a great base to build off. Mastering the basics will always set you up for success.

Because client A is a keen walker, we need to work on their leg /hip/glute strength. When we walk, we need power from our legs to propel forward. So one option is to practice the traditional Leg Spring exercises that usually happens on the Cadillac in a studio with springs attached to the upright poles. However, at home, with props, I use the theraband attached to a door stopper at one end and loops attached at the other end.

Hey presto… Cadillac at home! 

We might finish off at The Wall for a series of hip release exercises/stretches, to give them more space in the hip joint and more length in the surrounding muscles. The client should enjoy this ending, as the wall gives them a surface to push against and it will help the client feel the immediacy of the release in their tight/painful hip, it’s a great way to end the session and give them something juicy they can remember! 

 I might be biased, but Mat work is the best work. I mean Joseph Pilates  invented the Mat repertoire first, these were the exercises that serve as the foundation for his entire method. Yes the apparatus/equipment and accompanying exercises have a place in the system… of course! But when it comes down to it, the equipment serves as stepping stones, with the ultimate goal of getting the body ready for the Mat exercises. Romana Kryzanowska (one of Joseph Pilates original students) said in an interview with Washington Post in 2003 “The apparatus are good, but the mat work is everything. If you can do the mat work perfectly, you don't need the apparatus. But people love toys.”

The props’ ultimate goal is to get you to an unassisted Mat work (no props) one day. It’s a difficult thing to throw your body weight around in space- especially with control and precision and grace. So until that day, use the prop! And if nothing else, it’s fun!

I’ve built a business out of the Pilates Mat work and props. Recently, this is what one client had to say about the use of a prop in my virtual group Mat class: 

“Loved this class Kirsti especially as my back has been sore. The use of the prop, particularly assisting roll up, meant I could access a lot of the moves I couldn’t the week before (due to pain and the accompanying “weakness” of core muscles that go with that)”.

I’ll also be using props throughout my upcoming Embrace the Change program. It starts on the 15th February and runs for 5 weeks. This Pilates and Nutrition program will help women dealing with the physical, mental and emotional change that menopause brings.

Whether you are at the beginning of this hormonal shift or right in the thick of it, the program aims to give you strategies to manage your aches and pains, your weight and your energy levels + sleep. For more information about this program go here.

Pilates through the Ages: Why Pilates for Menopause Works

In my 10 years of experience, there is something I have come to realise, Pilates is adaptive. It evolves WITH a person’s needs and FOR a person’s needs. 

When I started my own practice, I was all about the Control Balance Handstand off the side of the Reformer. And not gone lie, I still love to give these a whirl every now and then. But there was a long while there, that my needs were so far from this and I just physically couldn’t do it, nor did I have any interest.
When was this strange time that you didn’t want to flip off reformers you ask?

Pregnancy and postpartum x 2. 

The hormones that fluctuate to create and sustain life in a human body are immense. Not only is it an emotional, moody, ball-your-eyes-out-at-the-drop-of-a-hat rollercoaster but physically the experience and change to you body, is next level. A woman will produce more estrogen during one pregnancy than throughout her entire life when not pregnant. Progesterone levels also are extraordinarily high during pregnancy. It’s these changes in progesterone, that cause a laxity or loosening of ligaments and joints throughout the body. Loosening ligaments and Advanced Pilates exercises are not always the best of friends. As I found out the painful way. See-ya-Later Control Balance! 

I needed to scale things back, focus on my ever changing body’s needs, a little less upside down work, a little more hip strengthening and low back stretching. Pilates can do this. It can challenge you at your fittest and strongest, it can calm, centre and restore you at times when you need the most support. It’s pretty amazing. 

Pregnancy is a stage where women experience massive amounts of estrogen and progesterone, at the other end of the spectrum, menopause is a stage where there is a rapid decline in these hormones. Just like we scale and modify to meet our changing needs in pregnancy, we need to change and modify to meet our changing needs in menopause.  

Menopause is sometimes called 'the change of life' as it marks the end of a woman's reproductive life. At menopause, ovulation no longer occurs and production of oestrogen and progesterone ceases. The word “menopause” refers to the last or final menstrual period a woman experiences. (menopause.org.au).

Although many women might find relief in saying good bye to periods, tampons, sanitary pads and wearing those hideous period undies, for most women the rapid decrease in hormones, will mean experiencing some or all of the following symptoms: night sweats, vaginal dryness, hot flashes, weight gain,  forgetfulness, insomnia, anxiety, and headaches.

Menopausal women also experience changes such as, loss of muscle strength, loss of flexibility and joint pain.  These impacts can contribute to musculoskeletal disorders such as osteoporosis. 

Pilates can significantly reduce the impact of menopause because it helps to build strength and increase flexibility and mobility which decreases joint pain. Pilates is low-impact, there’s no lifting heavy weights in the gym, so it’s considered a safe option. Pilates works on core control which helps with dynamic postural balance, as we age, balance and proprioception tend to suffer the most. 

Pilates focuses on how we use the breath to get the most out of the movement. when you can use the Pilates breath to it’s full potential during exercises, breath has the ability to calm your nervous system down, this in turn is a powerful tool in helping reduce anxiety. Simultaneously,  with a calm nervous system you can reduce your cortisol levels and thus making it easier to lose weight (Catriona Harvey-Jenner) and improve the quality of sleep. 

I have been teaching women between the ages of 40-70 for many years now. And these women often describe Pilates as gentle on their body but fierce in its benefits. Knee problems? Back problems? Shoulder problems? No worries, Pilates can accomodate, and in most circumstances improve the muscle imbalances causing these problems. 

Here’s what one client, aged 60 had to say about her Pilates practice:

“I started with Kirsti Pilates To You 5 years ago, aged 55.  I was feeling unfit, stiff, lethargic and tired all the time, classic post-menapausal symptoms.  My diet was relatively healthy, but I was putting on weight and too tired to try and get rid of it. I started doing a mat class with Kirsti once a week, and within a few weeks noticed a difference - it was easier to get up off the floor or from kneeling down and my energy was returning.  Whilst I didn't lose any weight, I stopped gaining weight and that was a big plus.  I was feeling happier and more relaxed.  I have noticed when I go away on holidays that it doesn't take long to lose the fitness I work hard to gain, and the feelings of tiredness and lethargy return.  I really look forward to my class each week.  During the lockdown in Melbourne, I started doing two classes a week via Zoom, instead of one and quickly noticed the improvement that brought - particularly to my mental health and motivation.   I wouldn't miss my Pilates classes for anything!  Kirsti's enthusiasm is contagious and makes each class a lot of fun”.

Lastly don’t forget your nutrition has to change with your changing body. You can’t expect to eat like you did in your 30’s when you’re 60 and still see the same results, but what should you eat?! It all comes down to what will fuel you for energy, work with your slowing digestion system and address hormonal imbalances to limit sleeplessness, aches and pains and headaches. Recently, I wrote a blog on moving and eating where my nutritionist friend, Emma Lynas was my guest blogger on this topic. You can check it out here .

If you are reading this thinking, yes, yes, yes this is me. Then Emma and I’s upcoming ‘Embrace the Change’ program is for you.

It’s all about encouraging you to embrace the changes in your body by teaching you how to move & eat for strength & vitality on your menopause journey. 

This program aims to:

-improve your strength & posture 

-move more freely and with less pain 

-help you understand how to manage your weight & energy levels 

-enhance your sleep & energy with nutrition

It commences on February 15th for 5 weeks.

Each week includes:

• 2 live, virtual 45minute Pilates classes (replay available)

• 1 x nutrition lecture with discussion in private FaceBook group

Maybe you’re not 50 and/or don’t think this relates to you, but what about your Mum, what about your Aunty, your friendly neighbour? Check in with them. Sadly, menopause is not a topic that is shared so freely, but a friendly ear to someone who might be struggling with weight gain/sleeplessness/pain, could actually be just what they need. So please mention this program, you don’t know who might be missing out. 

Any questions about this or the ‘Embrace the Change Program’, please get in touch here. 

There's a First Time for Everything, Including Pilates.

Me reflecting back to my first class back in 2010. Thanks Neeta @neetaphotography for this shot back in 2017.

I’ll always remember my first Pilates class. Just like my first kiss, it was awkward, weird, I didn’t know what to do with my hands, I held my breath a lot and I couldn’t stop thinking about it afterwards.

I almost didn’t go back after my first class. I mean I loved it yes, but man, the teacher was telling me so much stuff… like, how to squeeze my butt (‘don’t you just clench the living daylight out the top of your legs’!!), pull my stomach in, relax my shoulders (‘it’s not my shoulders that need relaxing lady, it’s my brain that’s fried from all these things I have to think about’), do something with my ribs that I just didn’t quite comprehend how I’m going to move a body part that is made out of bone and then also now she’s trying to tell me how to breathe?! Whoa. 

But, never one to walk away from a challenge, plus the promise of 6 pack abs (the friend from my old work who swore to me that Pilates was the only thing she’d ever done that got her visible abs), I knew I’d be back to conquer this ‘Pilates thing’.

This is most definitely not the first time i did the Stomach Series. But you get the jist of the buuuuurn! Thanks Gemma @hudlow.photography for this shot last year.

The first time I did the Stomach Series, or the Series Of 5, I knew I was on to a good thing. How can five movements bring about so much delightful torture? I remember thinking, what a waste of years and years, trying to do 300 crunches a night on my bedroom floor as a teenager, thinking that that was the answer to some ‘bikini body’. It’s all about precision of movement. Do it right and quality will trump quantity every. single. time.

Thanks to @wellness_by_norah for this. Nailed it.

The first time I farted in class doing the Rolling Like A Ball exercise I wanted the world to swallow me up, I was so embarrassed. Thankfully my gorgeous teacher didn’t notice, or else she was so used to it and just ignored it. I’m sure it was the latter. Now that I’ve been around Pilates for 10 years, I know that if any exercise is going to make you fart, it’s that one. I’ve lost count of the amount of farts from clients in class I’ve had to ignore myself. Joseph Pilates himself talked about his exercises being like a massage of the internal organs. It meant you were truly working from the inside out. And it’s the inside or the deep stabilisers of our centre that we are particularly concerned with working in Pilates. Now I just tell those clients, ‘hey, no stress, you’re doing it right when a fart escapes’ ;-) 

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The first time I really connected to my powerhouse (centre/core whatever you want to call it). It was like an Ah Ha moment. The pennie dropped. ‘Oooohhh so this is what it feels like’. How to describe it… like I was zipped up. Supported. Like someone was inside me hugging my organs and muscles. I especially remember, after babies, how much I appreciated the skill of being able to feel like I could physically put back the pieces of the puzzle that were my insides. Childbirth made my insides feel like they were floating around inside me looking for a place to call their home, not connected to anything, just floating aimlessly inside my skin. So weird. Thank F for Pilates with that ol’ chestnut. Who knows where my intestines might have ended up without it. 

The first time I felt the effects of missing a class. I thought Pilates was just a way of keeping fit. When I would miss a week here or miss a couple of classes there, sometimes I would just make up for missing it by going for an extra run or do an extra class at the gym that week. Then I realised, actually, this Pilates thing is keeping me together. When I miss a Pilates class it was making running harder, and I wasn’t recovering from the gym as quick. Hmmmm interesting. 

The first time I realised Pilates was making me a better human. I think this didn’t really occur until after kids. Of course I have known for ages how good exercise makes you feel, the endorphins, the reduction of stress on the brain, mental alertness and all that great stuff. But once you are in the fiery pits of sleep deprivation like you’ve never experienced before, and you would do anything to have 30 minutes of time to yourself without little gritty, grubby hands all over you and 16 cups of coffee is probably bordering on too much, holy hell, do you learn the benefits of moving the body and focusing the mind, it’s all in the mind to muscle baby… centred, purposeful movement is life changing. It reminds you that you can use your mind and body for great things.  (

Love these cheeky monkeys. Pic @hudlow.photography

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The first time I realised that Pilates never actually gets any easier. About 6 months after starting Pilates, I thought, why does this not feel any easier? Am I doing it wrong? Well firstly, we are our own worst enemy, nothing like a bit of competition with yourself. Secondly, it’s human nature to look for the negatives, once upon a time it would have saved our skins to be on the lookout for the danger/the negative/ the baddies. Hello, Wooly Mammoth, you can’t catch me, I’m outta here. Fast forward to now and we still hold a negativity bias, basically, humans tend to focus on the negatives over the positives. Back to Pilates, my teacher was always really good at highlighting how far I had come. ‘Remember when you couldn’t roll up off the ground?, remember when you could only do this on the yellow springs and now you’re on the purple springs?, remember when you had to rest between every rep?’…..hmmm yeah, ok , good point, thanks. The trick with Pilates is that as you learn more (eg, see paragraph above about connection to powerhouse, hello AHA moment), you learn how to use the right muscles, sometimes these muscles aren’t used to working so hard, they are now working in conjunction with those more dominant muscles and voila you now have more muscles working, more precision and concentration needed to control said muscles and you will most likely feel that effort in spades! I love @carrie_pages_pilates take on this……”I always compare Pilates to dance and music. With dance and music after a certain point in your training, you're no longer learning new movements or notes but you refining your performance of them. You begin to put the movements or notes together in ways that make them more challenging. You may learn to execute more turns or hold notes longer but the fundamentals remain the same, therefore the process doesn’t get easier you just get better. For me, Pilates is like a dance or symphony that flows from one movement to the next and I love to experience how each workout feels different. I try to perform the movements with more precision and control concentrating on how I can move more effortlessly and focused. I never get bored. If anything I find myself falling more in love with Pilates year after year”. Well said Carrie, well said! 

So there you have it, my firsts with Pilates. I know a lot of my clients have had some of these same thoughts/experiences… perhaps you have? Can you relate? Maybe there was a key ‘first’ for you that I’m missing? I’d love for you to share your experience with Pilates firsts. Maybe, you’re keen to get amongst some classes and start some firsts of your own? I’m currently taking on new clients, virtually for now, because of Rona, beauty of this is, it’s harder to hear you fart through Zoom, so what happens in your lounge room, stays in your lounge room! #winning

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